I hadnt initiated the static code, but now that i have this what i get:
05:50:32 PM SENT (1108953728): <iq id="2aKQj-6" to="person1@server.mssdd.com/Smack" from="person2@server.mssdd.com/Smack" type="set"><si xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/si" id="jsi_9076068213571624831" mime-type="image/jpeg" profile="http://jabber.org/protocol/si/profile/file-transfer"><file xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/si/profile/file-transfer" name="IMG-20131114-WA0000.jpg" size="13033" ><desc>You won't believe this!</desc></file><feature xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/feature-neg"><x xmlns="jabber:x:data" type="form"><field var="stream-method" type="list-single"><option><value>http://jabber.org/protocol/bytestreams</value></option><option><value>http://jabber.org/protocol/ibb</value></option></field></x></feature></si></iq>
Negotiating Transfer
05:50:33 PM RCV (1108953728): <iq id="2aKQj-6" to="person2@server.mssdd.com/Smack" from="person1@server.mssdd.com/Smack" type="result"><si xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/si"><feature xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/feature-neg"><x xmlns="jabber:x:data" type="submit"><field var="stream-method"><value>http://jabber.org/protocol/bytestreams</value><value>http://jabber.org/protocol/ibb</value></field></x></feature></si></iq>
05:50:33 PM SENT (1108953728): <iq id="2aKQj-7" to="person1@server.mssdd.com/Smack" type="get"><query xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#info"></query></iq>
05:50:34 PM RCV (1108953728): <iq id="2aKQj-7" to="person2@server.mssdd.com/Smack" type="result" from="person1@server.mssdd.com/Smack"><query xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#info"><identity category="client" name="Smack" type="pc"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/commands"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/ibb"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/muc"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/xhtml-im"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/si"/><feature var="jabber:iq:privacy"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/si/profile/file-transfer"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#items"/><feature var="jabber:iq:last"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/bytestreams"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#info"/></query></iq>
05:50:34 PM SENT (1108953728): <iq id="2aKQj-8" to="server.mssdd.com" type="get"><query xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#items"></query></iq>
05:50:35 PM RCV (1108953728): <iq type="result" id="2aKQj-8" from="server.mssdd.com" to="person2@server.mssdd.com/Smack"><query xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#items"><item jid="broadcast.server.mssdd.com" name="Broadcast service"/><item jid="pubsub.server.mssdd.com" name="Publish-Subscribe service"/><item jid="search.server.mssdd.com" name="User Search"/><item jid="conference.server.mssdd.com" name="Public Chatrooms"/><item jid="proxy.server.mssdd.com" name="Socks 5 Bytestreams Proxy"/></query></iq>
05:50:35 PM SENT (1108953728): <iq id="2aKQj-9" to="broadcast.server.mssdd.com" type="get"><query xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#info"></query></iq>
05:50:35 PM RCV (1108953728): <iq type="result" id="2aKQj-9" from="broadcast.server.mssdd.com" to="person2@server.mssdd.com/Smack"><query xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#info"><identity category="component" type="generic" name="Broadcast service"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#info"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#items"/></query></iq>
05:50:35 PM RCV (1108953728): <iq type="result" id="2aKQj-10" from="pubsub.server.mssdd.com" to="person2@server.mssdd.com/Smack"><query xmlns="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#info"><identity category="pubsub" name="Publish-Subscribe service" type="service"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#collections"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#config-node"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#create-and-configure"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#create-nodes"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#delete-nodes"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#get-pending"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#instant-nodes"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#item-ids"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#meta-data"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#modify-affiliations"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#manage-subscriptions"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#multi-subscribe"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#outcast-affiliation"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#persistent-items"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#presence-notifications"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#publish"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#publisher-affiliation"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#purge-nodes"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#retract-items"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#retrieve-affiliations"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#retrieve-default"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#retrieve-items"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#retrieve-subscriptions"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#subscribe"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#subscription-options"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/pubsub#default_access_model_open"/><feature var="http://jabber.org/protocol/disco#info"/></query></iq>
but it never leaves the status of negotiating stream and progress of 0
sorry to be a pest but iam new to all this any help you can give will be very helpful