Ok, I found out what I did wrong, and now have the correct messages showing up. I don't have the VideoBridge "set" message with the ssrc, but I only ran the conference for about 15 seconds before ending it.
Now, in the remote peer's "session-accept", it sends back its own IP/port. I, as the VideoBridge initiator, ignore this, right? I connect only to the IP provided by the VideoBridge "result" message, correct?
Pseudo-code (I hope this isn't too confusing):
LocalPeer = LP
VideoBridgePlugin = VBP
RemotePeer = RP
IP and Ports = IPP
LP "get" -> VBP
VBP "result" with VBP-IPP -> LP
LP "session-initiate" with VBP-IPP -> RP
RP "session-accept" with RP-IPP -> LP
LP ignores RP-IPP
LP connects to VBP-IPP
RP connects to VBP-IPP
Bridge occurs
Someone sends "session-terminate"
LP "set" with channel expire set to "0" -> VBP
VBP closes conference bridge.
As always, thanks for your help.
Jeeman